We all desire to be happy - it's part of being human!
One thing unites us all - we want to realize our desires. While our wants are as unique as our DNA, most of the things that we strive for fall into one of three categories:
Healthy Relationships
Career Opportunities
Abundance & Prosperity
How do we get from our current situation to the life we desire? You've likely heard of the term "manifestation". It's the idea that we can bring what we want into our lives.
But manifestation is more than just good vibes, crystals, and angel numbers. Let's go beyond the social media hype to understand the true process of manifestation.
WTF is Manifestation?
Manifestation is aligning our thoughts, beliefs, and actions to create our desired reality. Sounds simple, right? But it's not just about positive thinking and waiting for reality to give us a present. Let's drill into two parts of our definition: alignment and creating reality.
Understanding Reality
I'm going to go a little deep here - reality has two aspects. The first is what exists on the physical realm. Cars, trees, people - all these are part of physical reality. The second aspect is our perception and interpretation of reality. Our thoughts, beliefs, and feelings color how we view the world. We judge whether something is good or bad, possible or impossible.
Here is an example - let's say you text your friend, and the day passes without them responding. The physical reality is that your friend has yet to respond to your text. However, your interpretation might be that they are ignoring you or upset with you. In your mind, you created the "reality" that your friend is upset with you, even though that may not be true.
This example illustrates how our thoughts and beliefs can create their own reality. What we perceive as "real" in our minds may not match the actual physical reality. Our emotions play a significant role in this process as well. When feeling anxious, we interpret events negatively. This can lead us to create a negative reality for ourselves.
Sometimes, "creating the reality we want" is about acquiring or achieving something. Other times, it's about changing our perception and interpretation of what already exists.
The Importance of Alignment
Imagine this - you want to manifest a job where you feel respected. Have you defined for yourself what it means to feel respected? What specific actions would make you feel respected? If you can't define what feeling respected means, how can you achieve it? You might repeatedly change jobs and feel dissatisfied every time without understanding why.
Let's say you figure out what you need to feel respected. Then, you can start taking steps toward aligning yourself with that reality. This might mean setting boundaries and communicating their needs to their current boss. It may involve searching for a new job that aligns with your values. This might mean changing how you interpret situations in the workplace. You might have placed high expectations on yourself that are unreasonable for others.
Manifestation requires self-awareness and an understanding of what we truly want and need. Only then can we take inspired action toward that reality. It's not always easy, but this process that can bring about powerful changes in our lives.
Taking Inspired Action
Manifestation is not just about our thoughts and beliefs but requires us to act. The combination of inspired thought and intentional action brings manifestation to life. We can't sit back, think positive thoughts, and wait for things to happen. We have to be willing to put in the work and take steps towards our desired reality. This can include networking, building healthy habits, or having difficult conversations.
The Importance of Support
Society teaches us to be independent: self-help, do-it-yourself, etc.
Here's a little secret - even we manifestors need support. Each of us needs reassurance and guidance when trying something new. You might object by saying, "But others aren't experiencing what I'm experiencing!" That may be true. But, they might understand what it is like to face uncertainty and can offer valuable advice.
Having a support system is crucial when pursuing new ventures or taking risks. Starting a new relationship or changing careers? A support system can give you the courage and accountability to make those big changes. It can feel scary to step out of your comfort zone. People who believe in you can give you the confidence and motivation to keep going. They can also help you consider ideas you may not have thought of on your own.
Support doesn't just come from family and friends. It can also come from professionals, such as mentors, coaches, or therapists. These individuals use their knowledge and expertise to offer guidance. If you seek personal growth or want to achieve specific goals, this type of support is gold!
So, if you're ready to take inspired action and manifest your desires, remember that it's okay to ask for help. Having support on your manifestation journey can make all the difference. Don't be afraid to seek guidance on your path toward creating the life you desire.
Let's Manifest!
So what are you waiting for? If you're ready to take that step towards manifesting your dreams, I invite you to book a session with me. Let's work together to embrace your dreams and create a plan for success.
And if you're not quite ready for one-on-one help yet, that's ok too! Take some time to reflect on where you are in your manifestation journey and what level of support you need. Do you need to step back to reflect on what you want to manifest? Have you figured that out and are now seeking reassurance and guidance?
Wherever you are in your process, know I am here for you whenever you're ready.